Jul 23, 2008
Out of Curiosity
| I've never quite understood the whole Catholic religion. I get parts of it, but most of it I don't I guess. I don't see god in anything anymore. Too many bad things happen to people for there to be a god. I don't know how some people tout that there is one and he deserves to be praised. Too many people die for no reason. But back to what's grinding my gears... I've been in relationships, good, bad, and... terrible. Most of them bad and terrible though. I don't understand the "wait until I'm married to lose virginity" shtick. I mean, I get that some girls just don't want to go tossing it out there (but even that's rare). But I don't understand how something that can make or break a relationship like that can be left to the point where you have to be married to find that out. It's already happened to me, that personality matches up with mine and our attitudes towards life, goals, dreams, etc. You'd think it'd make for a decent relationship, but we're just not sexually compatible. It is a big part of a relationship isn't it? Isn't that half the reason infidelity exists? Because it just doesn't work in bed? I don't know, I'm probably full of shit as usual. But I don't know how people can go through life with that attitude. It is a vital part to a relationship being successful over a long period of time. Not too many people are patient in bed! Of course this is all speculation... I just want someone to explain the thought process to me because in all honesty, I don't get it. I can understand the believing in not wanting to complicated a relationship, I can comprehend you believe in some stupid rules god decided to set up for you but not the thirty other religions out there. I'm just flabbergasted at the justification that the people I know who want to wait, just don't have... |
posted by Mike at 2:44 PM
